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He Answers: Our Relationship

I asked Brandon all about our relationship, starting from when we were dating to how he felt the night before we got married. His answers are, well, they’re so Brandon!

Arielle: How did you feel when I first told you I loved you… and you didn’t say it back?
Brandon: I was nervous. I was nervous that this is it – this is a big commitment. I’m a very loyal person and I was scared that this was it. And it was it.

Arielle: How did you really feel when we officially moved in together?
Brandon: I prefer to be with someone all the time. Arielle was very easy and clean and neat, so it was nice. And it was like I also got a housekeeper.

Arielle: How did you feel when I built a shoe wall in front of your bed?
Brandon: I’m not like that. Honestly, I could live with no furniture or a fully furnished house I wouldn’t even notice. I didn’t even notice your shoe wall, I had no idea it was even there – it’s just the way I am.

Arielle: How did you feel when I told you I was ready for the next step and to get engaged?
Brandon: I was like it’s just another thing. I think in my head I was like I need to be able to provide a life for this person and I didn’t know what I wanted to do with my career – I was insecure because I didn’t think or know if I was going to be able to provide for you and our future. I was just so nervous about how I was going to be able to support you. It was the only thing I could focus on when we talked about getting engaged.

Arielle: How did you feel the night before you were going to propose to me?
Brandon: In my head, I felt like I already proposed. I wasn’t nervous at all. I just love making you happy I was just so excited to surprise you. If Arielle’s happy, I’m happy.

Arielle: How did you feel the night before you married me?
Brandon: It’s the same thing, I was already married in my mind. We were soulmates from the beginning. We were together, a team, we were never going to fuck this up. I felt married the second I knew I loved her and she loved me. We are a team.

Arielle: Going into the relationship did you think this was going to be serious or did you think of it as just a fling?
Brandon: I think I thought of it not as a fling, but I still wanted to be able to have fun. I still wanted to go do immature things with my friends. Not necessarily to hook up with other girls but I still wanted my freedom and to play the field. I wasn’t looking for another girl because I just didn’t want to be locked down yet. I wanted to still flirt with people and do what I wanted but go back to Arielle in the end. I didn’t want to not be able to go out with my friends and constantly worry about upsetting a girl I cared about.

Arielle: What made you realize that you didn’t want to see anyone else? (Click here for Why I Believe This Relationship Worked)
Brandon: You! My connection with you, that’s it.

By Arielle Charnas

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